How to Write a Text Message Booty Call

The term "booty call" originally refered to a phone call, but text messaging is becoming the new way to communicate. The term has also come to mean a person with whom you have a booty-call relationship. If you want to get in touch with your booty call, a good way to see whether he's up for some fun is to write him a text message. A little late-night action may just be a few punches of your cell phone keypad away.

Instructions

1. Check in with your booty call earlier in the evening to find out what he is planning on doing that night. There's no sense in sending a text message out to your partner if he is sick in bed with a cold and planning to stay in.

2. Try to stay relatively sober as the night wears on. It can be pretty unappealing to show up for your booty call sloppy drunk. And, as many guys know, overindulging in alcohol increases the desire for sex but decreases your ability to perform at your best.

3. Make sure that the other person knows what the plan is. Whose place are you planning to go to, and how are you going to get there? It's a good idea to have answers to these questions in mind before you write the text message in the first place.

4. Give your booty call a little time to prepare. Write her a text message at least an hour before you plan to get together, not 10 minutes beforehand unless, of course, that's par for the course in your relationship.

5. Write a text message that leaves a little to the imagination. Rather than come right out and say "Let's hook up," an approach like "What are you up to for the rest of the night?" works well. An indirect approach can also shield you from a feeling of outright rejection if your booty call decides to nix the hook-up.

6. Don't fix it if it ain't broken. If the person you're sending a text message to is a regular booty call of yours, simply do what you've done in the past and make sure you're in a position to follow through with the offer. Booty calls work because they're casual and fun--keep them that way to make them last.

Tips & Warnings

• Always practice safe sex. Having a booty call, multiple sex partners or engaging in casual sex can be unsafe. Always take steps to protect against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases by using condoms and other forms of birth control.