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Step 1
Start by testing the waters, if the recipient of your sexy text messaging is someone you haven't done this with before. Make a safe but flirtatious approach that lets the other person know how much you're looking forward to seeing them. Text messaging foreplay is just like real foreplay: it's better if you start out keeping things light and then work your way up (or down).
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Step 2
Up the ante by asking a directly suggestive question when your partner responds to your initial gambit. Though you should always use taste and good sense as your guide, a good rule of thumb is to use text messaging to set the mood for the kind of sex you want to have, be it sweet gentle lovemaking, animal passion or whatever else floats your boat.
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Step 3
Use text messaging as foreplay by trading messages with your partner describing in detail what's going to happen once the texting ends and the real encounter begins. Don't be shy about going into detail. This will get your partner's imagination revved up, and nothing heightens anticipating like knowing exactly what you're looking forward to.
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Step 4
Take advantage of the opportunity to test the waters to see whether your partner would be into trying some new, different and exciting things. If you have a particular kink or fetish you'd like to try out, use text messaging to broach the subject with your partner. One little trick is to throw it in there once you know you've got your partner up and running, since they'll be more likely to favorably respond if they're already chomping at the bit to tear your clothes off.
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Step 5
Follow through on your text messaging by meeting up with your partner and getting straight to business. As you let your passion take hold, remember that the brain is the most important sex organ. Text messaging is an excellent way to engage it.
