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How to Have Multiple Orgasms During Tantric Sex

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For the whole of human history, men have been jealous of women for their ability to have multiple orgasms during sex. It just seemed that biology had been kinder to women in this regard, giving them the physical components necessary to achieve this blissful state of affairs. Men simply had to make do with one orgasm at a time, waiting an hour or more in between to allow the semen to build up that would make another orgasm possible. However, through tantric sex, men have discovered that they can have multiple orgasms, too.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Instructions

    Practice Makes Perfect

  1. Step 1

    Condition your pubococcygeal (PC) muscles. If you've ever stopped your urine flow mid-stream, these are the muscles you used to do it. Three to four times a day, tighten your PC muscles 25 times in a row, holding for a second or two on each squeeze.

  2. Step 2

    Learn to relax during sex. If you find yourself getting too tense or excited and you think you might ejaculate too soon, stop what you're doing. Take a few deep, slow breaths and consciously relax your muscles. When you feel your excitement begin to abate, resume your sexual activity.

  3. Step 3

    Use slow, leisurely thrusts. This will help you prolong the first orgasm, thus allowing your sexual energy to flow throughout your body.

  4. Step 4

    Tighten your PC muscles whenever you feel yourself nearing orgasm. This will put a stop to the orgasmic response. When you tighten your PC muscles, also take a moment to breathe deeply and relax your entire body.

  5. Step 5

    Keep up this pattern of prolonging orgasm until you and your partner are both ready for you to have one. When the time comes, wait until you feel yourself at the cusp of the orgasmic response, then tighten your PC muscles. You should experience an orgasm without ejaculating.

  6. Step 6

    Continue having sex, clamping down on the PC muscles every time you want to have an orgasm. With proper practice, you should be able to have orgasms with only a minute or two in between to build up to the next one.

Tips & Warnings
  • The key to having multiple orgasms as a man is to be able to climax without ejaculating. It is the loss of semen through ejaculation that limits men to one orgasm at a time. Through proper tantric techniques, a man can learn to orgasm without ejaculating, thus making one orgasm after another possible.
  • Learning to have multiple orgasms during tantric sex takes a great deal of practice. Don't be frustrated if you can't control your ejaculation right away. It may take weeks or months of practice to reach this point.

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