How to Hire a Tantric Sex Coach

Learning to master the ancient art of tantra takes years of practice and discipline. While the rewards of such dedication are well worth it, resulting in better health, greater physical dexterity and a dramatically improved sex life, it's not something that is easy to learn on your own. Learning and understanding tantric sex techniques requires intensive instruction. While some basics can be learned from books or videos, to get the most out of your tantric practice, you should hire a coach.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Find a Coach and Take Your Tantra Practice to New Heights

1. Hire a tantric sex coach in your area. Checking with local yoga schools, looking at newspaper or online classified ads and browsing the Internet are all good ways to find a local coach. The phone book also sometimes has listings for tantra coaches.

2. Contact the coaches that interest you most. Set up times when you can meet with them in person to discuss their teaching techniques and schedules.

3. Interview the coaches. It's important that your personalities be compatible, otherwise the instructional relationship is not going to be of much benefit to you. Try to meet them somewhere informal, like a local coffee shop. If this is not possible, interview them over the telephone.

4. Discuss rates and payment options with your coach. In addition to being compatible personality-wise, it's also essential that your prospective coach charge rates that you're comfortable paying.

5. Attend one of the coach's classes. Most tantric sex coaches teach group classes. Even if you're planning on taking private lessons, going to a group class will give you an idea of how your prospective coach conducts learning sessions in the real world.

6. Make a formal offer to the coach you like best. Then, make a commitment to showing up for classes regularly (or to being home when the coach arrives, if you're taking private lessons).

Tips & Warnings

• When looking for a tantric sex coach to hire, make sure you find out about his qualifications and experience. Because tantra requires such a long time to master, it will do you no good to hire a coach who has little experience in the field. In general, the longer a prospective coach has been practicing tantra, the more effective her instruction will be.
• Unless you've signed a contract with a coach, you're not stuck with one once the hiring is official. If you find that you and the coach are not on the same page during your instructional sessions, you are always free to dismiss the coach and go back to the drawing board on hiring another.

[tantrikalover]

on 5/14/2009 Your tantric coach should feel a calling to help and guide others. Remember that he/she can guide you but the journey is yours and yours alone. Transformation is possible if you are able to open yourself to it. Love, TL.

[mydakini]

on 2/16/2009 Gread advice!I would add, take time to learn a little about the various schools of tantra, you may find the Indian systems suit your needs and nature perfectly, while the Tibeten tantric system may not work for you at all.namaste!