How to Use Whips in Bondage Play

At times, many of us may have wanted to whip our partners into shape. Bondage enthusiasts actually enjoy whipping and being whipped during bondage. They find it erotic and both mentally and physically satisfying. You too can spice up your sex life when you use whips in bondage play.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• BDSM whip or flogger

1. Punish your submissive partner when he disobeys your orders. Tie him up to immobilize him and you will have free access to whip his buttocks or thighs while he stays in one place.

2. Be controlled when your dominant uses whips on you. Sure, she can punish you whenever you do something she doesn't want you to do. However, when you are also tied up and helpless, you will find it easier to submit to her control.

3. Use them even if you don't like pain. Whips can sting when they strike and they can even leave welts on your skin. However, you can also use them gently or choose whips that do not hurt--the whipping sensation is enough to arouse you without causing pain.

4. Feel the rush of pleasure from being whipped as your body releases endorphins. These "feel good" chemicals help reduce the pain you feel when you receive a whipping or spanking. They can also bring your orgasm to new levels and transport you to "sub space," where your mind is freed as your body receives pleasure.

5. Watch your lover's skin turn red as you whip him. The change of appearance in a person is a huge turn-on for many dominants that are involved in bondage play.

6. Wake up your partner's nerve endings when you use whips in bondage play. Skin that has been whipped or flogged has more blood circulating to it. This causes greater sensitivity when you stroke, lick, suck, kiss or caress that part of the body.

Tips & Warnings

• Use a flogger or whip with more than one tail when you first engage in whipping (see Resources below). Single-tail whips are the kind that can cause welts and even cuts or bruises when used. Floggers are mostly used to heighten sensation rather than to inflict pain.
• Use the whip on yourself first to test its strength. Then you will know how it feels and the level of pain you are inflicting on your partner.
• Agree on the limits of your bondage and BDSM play before you add whips to your toy bag.

Resources

• Lovehoney.co.uk for multi-tail whips and floggers

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[MissBonnie]

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