How to Satisfy an Anal Fetish

An anal fetish is a relatively common sexual fascination with the anus. While others might not go so far as to claim a fetish, anal play has become fairly common and destigmatized to the point that it shouldn't be too difficult to find someone with whom you can explore your kink. However, there are also several ways to satisfy your anal fetish without the aid of a partner.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Access to sex toys
• Lubrication

Explore Your Anal Fetish With a Partner

1. Discuss your anal fetish with tact. To those who've never experimented with anal stimulation, it can be intimidating and painful. Be mindful of this when suggesting anal play during sex.

2. Use lubrication when stimulating an anus. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not a self-lubricating orifice. Without the proper lubrication, anal insertions can be painful or damaging.

3. Take time to savor the anus. Don't just leap straight into penile to anal intercourse. Fingering can be a satisfying way to tease the anus and loosen it up prior to actual intercourse.

4. Start slow. As with most sex acts, the reality of anal intercourse is different from the way it's commonly presented in pornographic entertainment. Satisfying anal intercourse is usually a marathon, not a sprint.

5. Orally stimulate your partner's anus. Commonly referred to as rimming, anilingus is the anal lover's equivalent of cunnilingus. Licking, stroking and teasing the anus can be a fun way to pleasure your partner and explore your anal fetish at the same time.

6. Experiment with "pegging." That's the name most commonly used to describe the sex act in which a woman uses a strap-on phallus to penetrate her partner's anus. This is commonly practiced in conjunction with dominance and submission role-play.

Satisfy Your Anal Fetish Without a Partner

7. Stimulate your anus while masturbating. While pleasuring yourself, try stroking your anus or inserting a lubricated finger.

8. Find sex toys to enhance your anal play. Your neighborhood adult bookstore will likely stock all kinds of sex toys, many of which are specifically designed for the anus. Butt Plugs and anal beads are two of the most popular kinds of anal sex toys.

9. Find pornography that features anal play. Though there are websites exclusively geared towards anal intercourse, many general pornographic websites will feature an anal section. Watching pornography can be a great way to satisfy your anal fetish when your partner isn't in the mood.

Tips & Warnings

• It's very easy to spread sexually transmitted diseases and other bacteria through the anus. Always wear a condom when engaging in anal sex, and never transfer genitals, fingers or sex toys from the anus to the vagina without washing them first.

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[bpincali]

on 10/9/2009 I'm a 48 yr old married 20yrs. & engage in these practices several times per week

[bpincali]

on 10/9/2009 I've been married 20+ yeasrs, early on my wife initiated anal play, got me to enjoy it then quit. I,ve been practicing these "self-play" technics for awhile..I would really like to get "PEGGED"

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