How to spot a Blue or NF type

You've seen them after taking a fun personality test, the Blue or NF type will take in the assessment and then get in touch with how they felt about the assessment results. This personality type really makes the world a better place and you will get clues to spotting them at work, home or at play after reading this article.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• Computer
• Open eyes
• Highly tuned ears

1. Listen and respond appropriately to their feelings...you will succeed in communicating with them Remember some of the key traits of a Blue or NF. They desire the arts, love, and harmony to fulfill their creative needs. When involved in a cause, they are passionate, communicative and enthusiastic. Blues or NFs make excellent communicators and find themselves in teaching, motivational speaking, coaching, and the helping professions. Above all else, they are concerned for theirs and others' feelings.
2. Teamwork and democratic style of leadership are Blue or NF trends Observe key traits of the Blue or NF personality in those around you. At work, are there people with more love, feelings and concern for people? Do you get greeted by a hug? Is their office adorned with spiritual sayings, warm pictures of family, and personal development books? When playing sports, are they enthusiastic but feel a bit down when they win and another loses? Do they prefer a more democratic method of decision making and get pumped up to work with a team?
3. Express feelings of gratitude and thanks Listen to what they say. A Blue or NF will say, "I feel...," My unique efforts are not being recognized" and "I love you." They are very appreciative of others efforts.
4. Have fun uncovering others' True Colors By observing others, we can determine if they are a Blue/NF type or not...to a certain degree. You never really know if people are Blue/NF or not because of how they express these traits. An introverted person, one who gathers their energy from within, tend to show their secondary personality traits to the world and think with their primary traits. So if someone is showing Blue/NF traits, they could be introverted and showing Blue/NF as their secondary personality traits. How do you determine if they are introverted or extroverted? Ask them how do they feel after a social gathering, drained or ready to party more? An extroverted Blue will generally say, "I feel like talking and having more fun!" An introvert? "Oh, I'm so drained....I just want to go home and be by myself. Of course, a more accurate way to determine if someone is an Blue/NR is to ask them or invite them to take the test. However, after teaching True Colors for several years, I can accurately spot people's primary and secondary colors with about 90% accuracy. Just think of the applications of acquiring this "Color Watching" skill in business, at home or play!

Tips & Warnings

• Value Blues or NFs for:
• Bringing cohesiveness to families, friends, and co-workers
• Tap into their enthusiasm and communication abilities
• Listen to their concern for people
• Help Blues or NFs by:
• Listening to them
• Valuing their unique contributions
• Give them feedback, love and support
• Understanding their need for harmony and disdain for conflict