Things You'll Need:
- Romantic music
- Sheet or towel
- Candles
- Massage oil
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Step 1
Prepare for the massage. Find a comfortable, private spot. Spread out a towel, sheet and pillows for your partner to lie on. If you have a massage table, use it, but add romantic touches nearby like scented candles and romantic music. Warm your hands by soaking them in hot water.
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Step 2
Choose a massage oil. You can buy many scents, such as ylang-ylang, sandalwood, jasmine, rose or sunflower from some drug stores and online sensual aid stores like Adam and Eve. Pour a dollop of oil in your hands, warm it up, and then spread it generously over your lover's body.
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Step 3
Massage the back with long smooth strokes along the spine. Most people equate massages with back rubs, so they'll expect this as part of the massage. It's also a great way to release tension in the spine and set the pace for the rest of the massage.
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Step 4
Follow the back rub by massaging the buttocks. Rub the butt by using your elbow to stroke the hip, then move to the gluteus maximus. Do this gently at first, but increase pressure if your partner likes it.
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Step 5
Perform a complete massage on a male partner by having him lie face down on the bed or massage table. Straddle him with your legs to his sides. Keep your hands flat, and move them in circles on his back, and then move up to his neck and shoulders. Keep your hands well-lubricated with hot, scented oil.
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Step 6
Knead your male partner's back, shoulders and neck with the flat of your thumbs. Massage his buttocks, legs and inner thighs using the kneading method, and then end with small circles. Turn him over and massage his face and chest.
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Step 7
Massage a female partner while she wears her bikini or bra and thong. Rub her back and shoulders above the bra. Then undo the back of the bra and rub her neck. Knead her ankles, calves and legs with small circles, then turn her over and massage her breasts, nipples and stomach.
