How to Teach a Child Self Worth

Children's self esteem can easily drop, especially after they've made an embarrassing mistake or suffered a public failure. However, there are several ways to help build a child's self worth, while teaching them some valuable life lessons.

Instructions

1. Give encouragement. Let the child know that she is loved no matter what. Never hesitate to say something kind to the child. You can grow self-worth by feeding it.

2. Avoid comparisons. Comparing the child to others leads to resentment and negativity. Be proud of the child for who she is, and tell her so. If she compares herself to others, remind her of her strengths.

3. Set limits. Be consistent with rules and punishments. Children feel more secure and confident when they know the rules and repurcussions. Trust him to follow the rules and make good decisions.

4. Let her make mistakes. There is a valuable lesson to be learned in making mistakes. Show the child how she can fix whatever is broken, and help her come up with a better plan for next time. Point out that everyone makes mistakes, and that the important thing is to learn from them.

5. Listen carefully. Never blow off the child. If he talks, he needs someone to listen to know that he is important. Always empathize, and try to help him find a solution to his problems.