By
eHow Fashion, Style & Personal Care Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Select a hair relaxer that does not contain lye. Lye is found in many relaxer products, but it can easily burn your skin. Lye-free hair relaxers will not bother your skin as much, though you still need to take precautions and use them safely.
Step2
Test the product first, by applying a small amount to a piece of hair at the back of your neck. This will determine if you are allergic to the product, or if it is too strong for your particular hair.
Step3
Protect your delicate skin by applying a light layer of petroleum jelly to the scalp before application to prevent burning.
Step4
Wash out hair relaxers with a neutralizing shampoo. If the product does not come with a small bottle of neutralizing shampoo, you can usually find some where you would normally buy hair care products. Use conditioner frequently after relaxing your hair.
Step5
Consider going to a professional hairdresser. Professionals know how to choose the right products for you and apply them safely. A hairdresser can help to apply the product evenly for a perfect look, as well as rinse the product thoroughly from areas that you cannot see.