-
Step 1
Hang up the phone as your first line of defense in dealing with obscene phone calls. If you engage the caller in conversation, it just encourages him. It usually does no good to ask her questions about why she's calling or why she won't stop. Be careful to never disclose any type of personal information over the phone. Teach your children to simply hang up and not give any information.
-
Step 2
Call the phone company first if the calls become consistent or if the caller becomes threatening. Most obscene phone calls are random. But if a caller makes a connection between you and your number, he may note it and keep calling. Phone companies vary in how they handle this situation. Some companies take measures to deal with obscene phone calls. The company will put a system in place to monitor your calls. Some phone companies advise contacting the police.
-
Step 3
Deal with obscene phone calls by keeping a phone log. If the calls persist, write down the date and time. Describe the voice, whether it's male or female, has an accent or any distinctive sound to the voice. Listen for background noise. This is the type of information you'll need for the police, should it become necessary to file a report. If you are ever threatened in any way, call the police.
-
Step 4
Consider changing your phone number and making it an unlisted number in order to deal with obscene phone calls. There is usually a small fee, but it's worth it in order to stop the calls and give you peace of mind.
