How to Introduce a Strap On Into Sex

Many people, both men and women, enjoy using a strap on with their partner. However, introducing a strap on into sex can be awkward if one partner is unsure of how the other will feel about the suggestion. A few simple steps can help you introduce a strap on into sex and assure your partner that it can be a rewarding experience for both parties.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

1. Bring the topic up in conversation. When you find yourself discussing sex with your partner or fantasizing together, throw the idea of a strap on out and see what happens. If your partner seems to like the idea in fantasy, consider bringing the subject up later.

2. Be honest with one another. If a strap on is something you really want to try, express your interest. However, if your partner seems adamantly uncomfortable with the idea of sex with a strap on, ease off a bit. Give your partner some time to think over it and bring it up at a later date.

3. Shop for a strap on together. Once your partner has agreed to incorporate a strap on into sex, it is best to pool your efforts in picking out a toy. The person wearing the strap on needs to be comfortable, as does the partner on the receiving end.

4. Stock up on lubricant. Because using a strap on is probably something new, having some extra lubricant around is the only smart way to go to ensure comfort and a positive experience.

5. Go slowly when you christen your new toy. It will inevitably take some time and practice to master the use of a strap on. Be sure to communicate with one another in the bedroom so that both of you are comfortable and welcome to new sensations.

Resources

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