How to File Divorce Papers Without an Attorney

Hiring an attorney when you file for divorce is a good idea but isn't always necessary. Many resources are available if you decide to file for a divorce without the assistance of a lawyer. The upside is that it's less costly. However, you and your spouse must be able to agree on divorce terms.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• Divorce paperwork
• Divorce term agreements for both parties

1. Visit your courthouse. Many courthouses provide self-service document centers where you can print the necessary documents to file for divorce in your county.
2. Search the Internet for "do-it-yourself divorce" websites such as Legalzoom.com. The documents are provided on the websites for a fee and all you have to do is fill in the blanks.
3. Go to a national bookstore chains such as Barnes and Noble sell divorce kits, many complete with instructional CDs.
4. Make an appointment with a mediator. Seeing a mediator does not require a lawyer or judge. Doing so helps you and your spouse get the opinion of an unbiased third party and will help settle disagreements.

Tips & Warnings

• Be sure to deliver divorce papers through Certified Mail and check the box labeled "Return receipt requested" to be sure that your spouse receives the proper paperwork.
• Choose a national divorce kit. Since many states differ on divorce laws, a national kit will prevent you from having to do extra legwork finding your state's specific laws.
• If you and your spouse can't come to an agreement about child custody and the division of assets, it is likely that you will need the assistance of an attorney.
• Many states require that you publish the divorce filing in a newspaper where your spouse lives. If you don't know where your spouse is living, his last known address is acceptable.