How to Make Conversation at a Bris Party

It can be awkward to chit-chat at a bris party--especially if you've never before been to a bris, are squeamish or don't approve of circumcision. Yet it's important to know what to say and be respectful, since this ceremony is an important rite of passage for Jewish baby boys. Here's the right way to make conversation at a bris party.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Talk about the newborn baby. Ooh and ahh over his adorable little face, tell the parents he's beautiful and congratulate the grandparents as well. You can chat about your own experience as a parent with small children and ask polite questions about the baby's health and habits.
2. Talk about the baby's big sister or brother, if he's not a firstborn. Ask how the older sibling is adjusting and compliment the parents on this child's good behavior, adorable outfit--whatever nice thing you can comment on.
3. Chat about the food with other guests. Jewish celebrations are almost always filled with delicious and plentiful catering trays. You can comment on the amazing selection or tell a story about the last time you had a knish like this one. Food is always a safe conversation starter.
4. Ask guests you've met before what's new in their lives. Fill them in on important developments in your life, too. Catching up is a great way to make conversation at a bris party.
5. Make small talk on just about any topic--sports, news, the weather--other than the circumcision itself. If you feel awkward about this procedure, your discomfort probably will be obvious. Chatting about general interest subjects is a much safer course of action.

Tips & Warnings

• If you don't believe in circumcision in general, this is not the time or place to express your views.

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