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Step 1
Watch for warning signs that your child is struggling. Many children won't admit to their parents that they're having trouble in school, so pay attention to missing report cards and watch for a poor attitude toward attending school.
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Step 2
Notice if there are changes in the frequency with which your child needs your help on homework. If a child is asking repeatedly for explanations or assistance, it could be time to hire a tutor.
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Step 3
Have a talk with your child when she is open to conversation. Instead of making a big deal out of "the talk" about school, approach her when she's watching television, listening to music or otherwise relaxed. Ask how classes are going and how she feels about her workload. You might be able to get more information than you thought.
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Step 4
Talk to your child's teacher because he is the most reliable source of information on how your child is doing in school. He can probably give some advice about the state of your child's work and if there's improvement on the horizon.
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Step 5
Try after-school tutoring that the school provides, and if that doesn't work, it's definitely time to hire a private tutor. Many school systems not only offer tutoring but require it if a student's grades fall below a certain level. However, a private tutor may be able to better mold her lessons to fit your child's problems.
