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Step 1
Find a sex therapist in your area. You can either look in your phone book or perform a search on the Internet. The AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) has a website that can help you locate a professional nearby.
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Step 2
Meet with the therapist on your own or with your partner. The first visit is an evaluation to see what areas you and the therapist can work on.
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Step 3
Decide on the best course of treatment. After ruling out medical problems as the cause of a sexual disorder, the therapist can recommend counseling sessions, audio and video aids, or workshops.
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Step 4
Do your sex therapy homework. Perform all the tasks asked of you by the therapist. She may recommend sexual exercises or communication games with your partner.
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Step 5
Keep all appointments. Attending regular sex therapy sessions helps you resolve any sexual issues. Most sex therapists have you come for weekly visits for 2 to 3 months.














