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How to Have a G Spot Orgasm

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The G spot orgasm is believed by many women to be one of the most enjoyable sexual experiences possible. However, some women are discouraged by unsuccessful attempts to achieve one, as the process can be quite delicate, requiring the concentration and patience of both sexual partners. Read on to learn more.

Difficulty: Easy
Instructions

    Enjoy Your G Spot

  1. Step 1

    Talk freely during foreplay. Don't be afraid to be honest with your partner and use your imagination to discuss sexual desires and approaches you find most pleasurable, even if you tend to find it embarrassing to discuss these topics. Establishing an open line of communication may allow you to relax and enjoy the experience while knowing that you can be honest about what is and isn't helping you come closer to having a G spot orgasm.

  2. Step 2

    Take your time to get comfortable. Feel free to rest with your partner on the bed or the couch while you talk, hold each other, kiss or cuddle. It's important to be at ease, so you might want to have a glass of wine or put on some relaxing music in order to unwind and let go of any stress you're holding from the day.

  3. Step 3

    Practice often with your partner while being vocal about what you're feeling. Once you begin to have a G spot orgasm, tell your partner and describe the sensation. It's positive reinforcement for your partner to know that his hard work has paid off, and your words may encourage him to take the same approach in the future.

  4. Step 4

    Tell your partner to keep his finger inside your vagina, so he can feel the contractions you experience during the g spot orgasm. Be sure he does not take his finger out as you begin to orgasm. As you are having the orgasm, your partner will likely notice the light squeezing of your vagina as it retracts at a slow rhythm that will probably last a few seconds.

  5. Step 5

    Use a vibrator to try and have a G spot orgasm on your own. There are some models designed specifically for G spot stimulation.

Tips & Warnings
  • Avoid the feeling of needing to urinate that often prohibits women from having a g spot orgasm. Massaging your g spot may create a sensation that feels very similar to the one associated with urination, so be sure to empty your bladder before beginning sexual activity. Knowing that you do not need to urinate should help you feel less inhibited.

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on 7/10/2009 Lots of articles about G-spot:
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