How to get a girlfriend that like you for you

have you ever wondered why you never get girls that you like but only the ones that like you? have you ever wondered why the girl you like never gives the time of day? if you have problems with girls than i can help.

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• A good attitude
• confidence
• willingness to change
• money (not critical)

1. in order for girls to even want to be around you, you must be clean. this means daily showers, deoderant, and occasionally a haircut.a girl doesn't mind being around someone who smell good and looks clean.you may need a little cash to keep your hygiene maintained.if you have greasy skin than always keep a napkin close by so you can wipe your face when its greasy.
2. you don't need to spend a lot of money on clothes to look good. If you can afford it than by all means go buy something new. if not than you must use what you have. take out a clean shirt and a pair of jeans. Iron them very neatly. trust me, a good iron job can make a clean shirt look new. clean your sneakers, normally thats the first thing girls look at. if you don't have any good sneakers than save a few bucks and go buy some "Vans" or some "converse". they are cheap and still stylish. being plain is they key. buying clothes that match your footwear is the smartest way to look good. Also keep your hair neat.
3. find the girl you like. watch her for a while until you see things that could be potential conversation topics.don't let her see you watching. this will creep her out. once you find enough info about her than you talk to her. this is the toughest part but once you do it its easy from here on out. when you see her say "hi" and if she says hi back than you start up a conversation.
4. small talk is the best way to get to her. if you talk about something to complex than she will get board and get away from you. talking about basic things will get her to open up and give her a chance to say something. once she starts talking than you listen to her. don't talk too much about yourslef , just find out stuff about her like what she likes to do.
5. in this time you should know if she's nice or if she's just blowing you off. you can tell if she likes you. it will just be a feeling that you'll get. if she does like you than its very easy now. all you have to do is keep talking her. soon ask her if she has a myspace or a facebook. it's a lot easier than asking for her number.
6. after a good number of conversations you will feel like you gotten somewhere. once your there than you can get her phone number. This is a big mistahe for some guys. usually when you get a girl's number you think you should keep calling until you get her to pick up. No! all wrong. at a max call her twicw a day. anywhere over that than she will think you are hounding her than your going to get played. call and if she picks up than talk to her about stuff alittle more complex than before and when your comfortable than ask if she wants to go out to the movies or the mall sometimes ti just hang out.if she syas no than big deal. just wait. talking will open up all those doors to her.
7. once you guys are ready to go out than set a date. once it is agreed on than great. don't cancel everything you had planned before to go on this date because she may stand you up and then you made a mistake.if she comes than the rest is up to you.

Tips & Warnings

• be yourself
• be polite
• have fun
• don't try things that your friends say will work. different things work for different people. find out the things that work for you.