How to Orgasm After Sex Reassignment Surgery

As sex reassignment is still a relatively new concept for the modern world, there is still debate over the reality of orgasms experienced by those who have elected this surgery. Below are some tips to help those who desire orgasms after such a life altering experience.

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

1. Decide how important having an orgasm is to your enjoyment of the overall act of sexuality within lovemaking. Some studies seem to indicate that a high percentage of people who have sex reassignment surgery can have orgasms, while other studies seem to suggest that achieving an orgasm could be wishful thinking, maybe more a product of desire and imagination than actual sensation from stimulation.
2. Touch the sensitive parts of the skin in order to get to a point of arousal. With the male to female surgical technique called "penile inversion," the sexually responsive parts of the penis are kept with nerve endings intact, and just thrust inward, so, theoretically, any manual stimulation of those parts of the newly created "vagina" would create arousal.
3. Have patience in the process and don't rush yourself or a partner into the role of "must have an orgasm." Sex reassignment surgery is a major step to take in the recreation of your physiological and psychosexual identity; something as intense and as emotional substantial as an orgasm ought to be treated with respect.
4. Accept your new masculinity or femininity wholeheartedly. Orgasm is, at least in part, an expression and acceptance of who you are as a sexual being. That intense event in lovemaking is like an exclamation point to your statement of how you see yourself.
5. Touch yourself and/or have your partner touch you gently, with care and with passion. When it comes down to it, orgasm is at least as much a product of your mental state as it is a physical reaction to stimulation. Be open to the possibilities and let your own identity come through.