How to Tell if a Boyfriend is a Loser
Dating can be a bit unsettling. You never know if the guy you are dating is the good guy he seems or a loser who can put on a good act. There are several signs that will tell you if your boyfriend is a loser. The sooner you know that your boyfriend is a loser, the sooner you can move on and meet a winner.
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Instructions
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End the relationship immediately if you start to notice signs of physical or emotional abuse. Abuse of any kind is a definite sign that your boyfriend is a loser. A loser will try to break down your self esteem so you feel like he is the only guy that will ever love you. There is no excuse for abuse.
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Spend time away from your boyfriend and see what he does. If he calls you compulsively, he is insecure. A loser is not comfortable when his girlfriend has her own life. He will check up on you all the time to make sure you still care about him.
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Evaluate his behavior. Run if he tells you he loves you after a few weeks of dating. When a guy tells you he loves you so quickly it may seem romantic, but it should set off alarms in your head. A guy who attaches himself to people quickly will detach just as quickly.
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Listen for comments that encourage you to distance yourself from your friends and family. A loser does this so he has more control over you by cutting off your support system. This guarantees that you won't have any outside input about his behavior.
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Consider if he shares dating expenses. Make him pay for things too. A loser tends to make his girlfriend pay for everything.
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Tips & Warnings
If your boyfriend hits you even once, end the relationship immediately. Abuse of any kind is inexcusable and typically gets worse with time.
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I don't want to my boyfriend behave like that but he did treated me with no respect. I just only don't him to look a browzing in dating site had friends with many girlfriends, he alrdy had me.. what more does he wants now.. I am so fed-up with him! sometime's I felt I want to leave him, but his lucky I am good gf too him that I've gave him a chance to kw me better..
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Ditto to that!
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Anyone that takes money from children is a loser.
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Anonymous
Apr 04, 2011
this is useless advice if a guy say I love you quickly why the hell would he run away quickly too? -
rodneygooogly
Nov 06, 2010
FYI, these steps are a good way to identify a careless writer, not a bad lover or loser boyfriend. It is obvious that with relationships come problems. Humans are naturally self-centered like any other species (some dumber than others, some sexier, some more stuck up, some smart, etc.. all genetics). If the writer truly cared, then we would see more examples in the "instructions" listed above, rather than stating the obvious. Most likely, the writer has a money angle and preys on you that are here, b/c you expect websites to solve the emotional problems that your unique heart/brain's create. I say be an animal and do what what feels good to you. Skip instruction #1 because "DUH" if your that retarded to let someone abuse you then why bother reading this or anything else for that matter? Instruction #2 is my personal favorite: #2: Spend time away from your boyfriend and see what he...
