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Step 1
Consider the kids. Children are the first to lose patience with a long family dinner, so plan some diversion for them. When they arrive, let them know where they can spread out their toys and not be in the way. The best way to keep mischievous children out of trouble is to give each one a responsibility like setting the table.
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Step 2
Delegate. A family dinner means everyone pitches in and works together. Help develop the family approach by giving everyone a job. Ideally, you gave them each assignments to bring a dish for the dinner and can now direct them to the kitchen for their final preparations. If you didn't, assign them to a menu item when they arrive. Someone can peel the potatoes, husk the corn, wash the lettuce and so on.
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Step 3
Be gracious to all. Often, family gatherings begin to unravel when old tensions flare up. Remember, as the host it's your job to make everyone feel welcome. If you know Aunt Bee is prone to eating off her sister's plate, don't seat them next to each other. When the different family factions stake out their spaces in different rooms of the house, be sure to spend equal time with each, since they're all your guests.
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Step 4
Know when it's over. Even the best family dinner can't last forever. Encouraging members of your family to stick around for breakfast is a mistake. Smile, thank them for coming, and insist you'll host another family dinner again soon.
