How to Have Phone Sex With a Shy Partner

Being apart from a significant other can be lonely. However, for some people, salvation is just a phone call away. Phone sex can provide a little excitement and fun while couples are apart, as long as both parties are willing. Some find it difficult to vocalize fantasies, but a little coaxing can sometimes bring them out of their shell.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Pick your moment. If the initial phone conversation isn't going very well, there's little chance that your partner will be interested in taking it to the next level. Both parties should be in good spirits before an intimate conversation is initiated.
2. Ease into the topic gently. If you're dealing with a shy person, simply blurting out "Hey, let's have phone sex!" is just going to make them feel uncomfortable and self-conscious.
3. Begin warming your partner up by telling them the things you like and miss about them: their body, the way they kiss, your last sexual encounter with them, etc. This will help establish a connection while boosting your partner's confidence.
4. Offer your partner a chance to reciprocate. Ask them if there is anything they miss and like about you. Add encouragement to all of your responses. If they think they're doing well, chances are they'll keep going.
5. Take a trip down memory lane. Recall some of your favorite sexual experiences, and don't spare any details. Invite your partner to share some of their favorite memories as well.
6. Attempt to bring the conversation into the present by asking things like, "What would you do to me if you were here now?". If you think they'll be too shy to take the lead, you can start off by saying things like, "If you were with me right now, I'd...".

Tips & Warnings

• Just know that, in the beginning at least, you will be the one responsible for most of the conversation. Your job is to gradually bring them out of their shell by boosting their ego and assuring them that everything they do say is arousing, not silly.