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Step 1
Get comfortable with your body right from the start. The 69 position exposes everything that you have to your sexual partner, so you might as well enjoy yourself and enjoy the fact that your partner is enjoying you.
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Step 2
Enjoy what you are doing. Be playful. Have fun. Don't feel that you need to perform, and don't be afraid to be a little nasty. This isn't Sunday school.
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Step 3
Break any rules that you think may exist. It's great to focus on pleasing your partner, but it's also OK to lay back and enjoy what you are receiving for a few moments here and there during the experience. Just let your partner know how wonderful he is making you feel.
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Step 1
Make some noise. Whether you are inclined to moan, to talk, or to shriek at the top of your lungs, your communication may enhance the experience for each of you and even help guide you or your partner toward what is most blissful and away from what isn't working so well.
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Step 2
Experiment with role playing. This may be the perfect time to remove something from your mouth for a moment, give your jaws a rest, and tell your partner "You have been such a bad girl today."
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Step 3
Talk with your sexual partner during or after your sexual activity to discuss what each of you liked the most, and perhaps the least, in order to make your next 69 experience even greater.
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Step 1
Do what comes naturally with your hands. There is no rule that says that the 69 position is exclusively for oral sex. You can use your hands to give your lips, mouth, and tongue a little break, or to supplement your oral pleasuring with digital penetration of some nearby orifice.
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Step 2
Play with your toys in the 69 position. Vibrators, butt-plugs, ice cubes and anal beads have each been known to provide enhanced pleasure during lovemaking sessions in the 69 position, and for once you have a front-row seat.
