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Step 1
Keep up with current events, movies and the latest television shows so that you can use them as conversation starters. When there's a lull in the conversation, you'll always have a topic of conversation to help get it started again.
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Step 2
Greet people with a warm smile and ask them about themselves. People love to talk about what's going on in their lives and you might find you have things in common to keep the conversation flowing. Give them your undivided attention; don't allow yourself to worry about what you are going to say in response.
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Step 3
Make eye contact when someone is talking to you and you'll seem more outgoing. If you find it too difficult, look at the space between their eyes or at their foreheads instead. To them, it'll seem like you're looking them in the eye and it's a little easier on you.
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Step 4
Join organizations, social clubs or sports teams that interest you. Get involved at your church or volunteer for a cause that's important to you. It's easier to get to know people and learn to be more outgoing when you share similar interests with those around you.
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Step 5
Call some friends and suggest an activity you can all do together. Being the organizer for the group gives you good practice in being more outgoing and gets you out of the house where you can meet more people.
