Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Have an Orgasm During Masturbation for Men
Step1
Find a place to masturbate that is quiet and where you will not be interrupted for a couple of hours. If you don't live alone this may be somewhat difficult to do.
Step2
Turn on a sexy video. If you don't have any available try looking at a porn magazine or pictures that you find erotic.
Step3
Lubricate your penis and your hand. Try a water soluble lubricant or lotion.
Step4
Wrap your dominant hand around your penis or your thumb and index or middle finger. Pump your hand up and down in a rhythmic motion.
Step5
Pump your hand up and down faster while keeping your rhythm. Focus on your breathing. Allow yourself to relax and climax.
Have an Orgasm During Masturbation for Women
Step1
Allocate some time alone when you won't be interrupted. It is hard for a woman to climax when pressed for time.
Step2
Take a relaxing bath and soap up your breasts and genitals. Dry them off gently making sure to pay attention to your sensitive spots.
Step3
Insert your fingers into your vagina. Use your PC muscles to grip your fingers.
Step4
Rub your ****oris in a circular motion. Slowly apply a small amount of pressure. You should find that your breathing is becoming quicker and more shallow.
Step5
Relax and go with it. As your breathing becomes shallower you will feel a sense of urgency to finish what you started. You will climax soon after.
Comments
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crownedone01 said
on 2/18/2008 Maybe for some people it's as simple as that, but there's a lot more to climaxing, especially for women. She has to have the right mindset going into it. There are all kinds of things women think about at any given moment, and if she's distracted while going through steps 2-5, it's just not going to happen.