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Step 1
Recognize that you are your child's best advocate. Despite the professional opinions of doctors and researches, you know your child's personality. Don't be hesitant about calmly asserting your own views, but do so in a non-aggressive way.
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Step 2
Learn about your child's special needs. The more you are informed about your child's condition or disability, the better you will be able to advocate. Do your own research, attend meetings and join support groups for parents of children with special needs.
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Step 3
Ask questions. Make sure you understand all the evaluations that have been conducted concerning your child. Before you sign on the dotted line, always request clarification before consenting to evaluations or when reviewing test results.
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Step 4
Get organized. A special needs child comes with a lot of paperwork. Make sure to keep those papers neatly organized in a file or notebook. Additionally, you should always write down any questions you have concerning your child's care or education prior to meeting with doctors or teachers.
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Step 5
Stay involved with your child's educators and doctors by communicating with them on a regular basis. If your child is in school, volunteer in the classroom. Join the PTA. Make your presence known in a positive way.
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Step 6
Celebrate what is right about your child, not what is wrong with him. Have your child's doctors and educators tailor curriculum so that it strengths while downplaying weaknesses.
