By
eHow Careers & Work Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Step1
Think of people as individuals, not as races or genders. Stress that every person has their own culture while you are discussing general cultures that groups tend to have in common.
Step2
When discussing differences, make sure that everyone gets the message. Emphasize that no culture is better than another, but some behaviors are better than others.
Step3
When talking about problem behaviors, be blunt, but don't be unfair. Don't link bad behaviors to a specific culture. Make it clear that a "square" person could theoretically be as likely to enjoy bad behavior as someone who tends to have a "bad boy" or "bad girl" image. Usually, your workers will appreciate this distinction and understand the rules of fair play.
Step4
Keep it vague. Instead of asking people to share specific ideas, start with something open ended and let your participants fill in the blanks. People generally appreciate being able to have free input rather than feeling "led" to say a particular thing. Instead of, "Let's discuss ways that racial cultures operate in the lunch room" try, "Does anybody have anything to say about their personal culture?"
Step5
Design your own content to fill in the blanks. Don't leave your group hanging. Work out entertaining and non-sensitive filler for the seminar. Concentrating on shared behaviors (smoking breaks, music that workers listen to, the bagel truck schedule) will help make the time flow and keep things from getting too heavy. Focusing on problems your employees have been having will bring people down quick. You can touch on a problem, but don't make it a centerpiece.
Step6
Emphasize respect, but don't overemphasize it. Many diversity administrators tend to get bogged down in things that are usually taken for granted. Demanding respect is likely to backfire. Use your own example to show that respect should be a given.