How to Ask for a Palimony Agreement

"Palimony," a play on the words "pal" and "alimony," refers to the cohabitation agreement between two partners in a romantic relationship. In some states, a former boyfriend or girlfriend can sue for palimony if they can prove an agreement was implied during the course of the relationship. Use these steps to ask for a palimony agreement before moving in, because a little work now can save a lot of worry.

Instructions

1. Approach a discussion about a palimony agreement by reassuring your partner that it would be in both of your interests. Avoid reminding your partner that your paycheck is twice the amount of hers. Instead, remind her that someday she may make a fortune and that you shouldn't be entitled to any of it should you break up.

2. Let your partner know that you love him and that drafting a palimony agreement will strengthen your confidence in the relationship. Tell your partner that by signing it, you can be sure that he's in this because of his love for you and not for what you can provide for him.

3. Assure your partner that everything else about your relationship will remain the same after the agreement is signed, and that you're not using this as a means of deserting her without having to worry.

4. Offer to reimburse him for his legal representation if you know that he can't afford it. Both parties should hire different attorneys who will each work for their client's best interests.

Resources

• Learn more about palimony agreements.