How to Be Respectful When Visiting a Jewish Synagogue

If you've never been to a synagogue, you might not know how to behave respectfully while in a Jewish house of worship. But the etiquette in a Jewish synagogue isn't all that different from most churches' codes of conduct. Follow these simple rules and you'll be a real mensch.

Instructions

1. Wear a yarmulke on your head if you are a man. This includes young boys. A yarmulke is a small, circular cap worn at the crown of the head. You'll find these at the entrances of the sanctuary. Women only need to wear hats or head coverings if they are called upon to open the Ark holding the Torah.

2. Stand whenever the congregation is asked to stand. The rabbi lets you know, in English, whenever it's time to rise and be seated.

3. Stay in the sanctuary whenever the Ark, a cabinet-like structure holding the Torah, has been opened. The Ark is almost always on the stage or "bima" of the synagogue. You can leave to use the restroom or for any other reason as soon as the Ark is closed and the rabbi says it is OK to sit down.

4. Keep prayer books on your lap or in the book holders provided by your seats. It is considered disrespectful to put holy books on the floor.

5. Kiss anything holy that has accidentally fallen on the floor. This includes yarmulkes and prayer books.

6. Be quiet unless you choose to read aloud with the rest of the congregation when instructed to do so by the rabbi. Applause, talking on a cell phone or chatting conspicuously with worshipers is considered rude.

Tips & Warnings

• Wear a suit or sport jacket and slacks if you're a male. Women should wear suits or dresses that cover their upper arms.

• Don't take photos while inside a synagogue on Friday nights or Saturday mornings. This is the Jewish Shabbat, or Sabbath, and photography is prohibited during these times.