Things You'll Need:
- Patience
- The proper information
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Step 1
First, assess your "get girls" ability in general. [You can take look into the tips, warnings & resources at the bottom], or alternatively just think (honestly), how many girls of her caliber her have you dated?
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Step 2
Second, approach this girl, and just start a conversation. Become a great listener. Unlike popular belief, the way to get someone to like you, is not by impressing them. Instead, be impressed. Ask her all about herself, get her interests, hobbies, and values. See who she is, and what she likes in life.
Listen to her, confidently, and enthusiastically. Flirt just enough to let her know that you're interested in being more than a friend. But at the same time do not "Hit on her". -
Step 3
As soon as she returns the interest and flirts back, just offer taking this a step further.
Be bold and direct and tell this girl that you like her, and that you are interested in taking her out sometime. There are several possible scenarios.
If she liked you even a little, she is now likely to like you a lot more.
If she hid her interest, she will now stop hiding it.
If she says no, then she didn't like you (you can't make her like you), and nothing you "do" can change her mind. -
Step 4
If she says yes, great! Go on and date this girl.
If she says no... the only proven way of getting her to change her mind about you, is if you become a different, more attractive person and she sees the new you after several months or even years have passed (sorry, there is no other way). At which point you will know how to turn maybes it yes-es.
How do you become more attractive? Learn how to talk to girls and become successful with girls in general. By the time you have become a socially popular man who is successful with women, she is likely to see you in an entirely new light.
Comments
crazykat said
on 6/26/2009 There is no how to or how not to, when it comes to girls. its not about being intersted, beacuse chances are, if shes pretty. Tons of guys already are. To be different in that case you would want to play not so interested.
its a game of chess, you gotta wing it.
If she plays x peice you play y.
or you could just try being yourself.
no use forcing something that isnt true.
But if your looking to be a player,
and just get the girl for a night.
Just learn to play the peices in any situation.
borrelli said
on 4/25/2009 lol this guy has no idea what he is talking about... im 100% sure he is in it for the money! Judging by the hair cut and picture i would say this guy is single!
kaytay said
on 2/24/2009 Thanks for sharing.
parvenue said
on 9/9/2008 sometimes a girl doesn't like you BECAUSE she doesn't know you. You might appear one way and actually be quite different on the inside. I can't tell you how many married people I know started out as two people who really couldn't stand one another. How do you get over this? It's simple: communication. The way you get a girl to like you is to be interested in her. They say that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but for it's a woman, it's her ears. Tell her how attactive she is, tell her how much you like what ever it is about her that you like. Notice the little things she does or says or maybe the ways in which she treats other people or children or animals. Know the difference between infatuation and truly falling for someone. And by all means never by the fact that you can't get a girl to like you..because you can, if you are interested enough in her to get to know her.
HowToDating said
on 10/22/2007 This is the general "how to get a girl to like you" ehow, if you want some different information on getting girls to like you in general, please look over the resources or one of my other ehows. Thanks