How to Date a Christian

Dating anyone can be difficult because you have to get to know them and their ways. Dating a Christian can be even more difficult if you are not a God-fearing individual, but a blessing for those who already follow the same faith. Here are some ideas for both the believer and non-believer when dating a Christian.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Act like yourself. Be real and genuine and don't act like you are someone you are not. Most Christians have faults. They have struggles and down times. They are not perfect, so don't feel like you need to be perfect around the Christian.
2. Talk. There are a lot of beliefs whirling around that need to be brought to the surface. Share your feelings and thoughts openly. Listen to the Christian share his or her thoughts and feelings. Let them get to know the real you and then decide as a couple if there is a future.
3. Grow together. If you are dating a Christian, you may be expected to become one as well. If you are open to this, start from the beginning and grow together. A Christian is never too mature to be above the basics.
4. Teach the Christian something about your world. Many Christians have had a life of "sin" before finding their faith. Chances are good they were not born a Christian. But many have been born into a family with a strong faith and do not know much about a life outside of the church. Teach them about life outside of church. Introduce them to opposing cultures and viewpoints. Don't try to convert them, but rather let them know about other views that people have.
5. Let the Christian lead a Godly life. Don't lead him astray from his faith. Be respectful and don't push her to do things you know she considers wrong. This applies to 2 Christians dating one another as well as a non-Christian who is dating a Christian. 2 Christians can get into just as much trouble walking down the wrong path as a Christian dating a non-Christian. Just be respectful and loving.