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Step 1
Reassure your woman that you find her attractive. Many large women are self-conscious the first time they have sex with a new partner. The only way you will enjoy sex is if your partner feels comfortable and enjoys the experience.
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Step 2
Take your time with plenty of foreplay. Get to know her body and what she enjoys. Taking it slow adds to the anticipation and excitement.
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Step 3
Find a position that is comfortable for you and the woman. It may be difficult to do positions where she is on her back because she may have trouble breathing when lying flat. Experiment with several different positions to find one that you both enjoy. Let your imagination run wild.
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Step 4
Try a female dominant position. Many men find it arousing to feel a woman's weight on top of them. Go with whatever feels comfortable for you and the woman. Doggy-style is also a good route and it's probably the most popular in the BBW community.













Comments
benpauley said
on 2/26/2009 Awful.
marinabreeze said
on 9/9/2008 Too "one size fits all," assumes all large women are shaped the same way. Also too stereotypical all around, and whoever wrote this has no clue as to what s/he's talking about.
eeka said
on 4/12/2008 This is heterosexist. The title should specify that this is advice for how to make love to a large woman if you are a man.
bbwgirl69 said
on 12/8/2007 From the profiles on pluscupid.com, many slim men like BBWs.
Darnocoo7 said
on 11/18/2007 How do you tell her," I am a BBW lover" With out pointing out the fact that she is in fact a "BBW".
Some women may be offended when pointing this out?