How to Convince a Man to Get a Vasectomy
It's little wonder that the word "vasectomy" makes a man cringe and squirm. The myths surrounding a vasectomy, as well as the prospect of having a stranger hold a sharp object to his nether regions, is enough to make a man abstain from sex altogether. However, there are ways to convince a man to get a vasectomy. Read on to learn more.
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Schedule an appointment with a certified urologist. Only a doctor will be able to provide the medical facts and dispel any reservations your spouse may have about getting a vasectomy.
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Reaffirm to your spouse that having a vasectomy is an almost pain-free and quick surgical procedure that will not diminish his sexual feeling or performance.
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Reassure your spouse that he will not be any less of a man, nor will you regard him as such.
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Have your spouse talk to another man who has had a vasectomy. Personal testimony can often sway a man into having the procedure completed.
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Remind your spouse that a vasectomy is the most effective form of birth control and that the procedure is much less invasive and expensive than compared to a woman's tubal sterilization.
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Declare that your sex life will be more pleasurable without having to worry about unintended pregnancies. The promise of more, and better, sex might be what it takes to convince a man to get a vasectomy.
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Tips & Warnings
The decision to undergo a vasectomy should be reached by both a man and his partner, if in a committed relationship. As a vasectomy is a permanent form of birth control, you should both agree on the reasons to have a vasectomy.
