How to Stay Celibate

Each person who is celibate has their own personal reasons for abstaining from sex. It could be that they want to wait for marriage, adhere to religious beliefs, or recover from a bad sexual experience. Staying celibate may be difficult, but it is obtainable.

Instructions

1. Keep away from temptation. If you really wish to stay celibate, steer away from situations that will tempt you to break your vow. This may involve avoiding the local bar scene.

2. Find a strong support system. Let a friend or family member know your decision to stay celibate. They can help you deal with any conflict that you experience because of this decision.

3. Be honest with your partner. If you are dating someone, let her know up front that you plan to stay celibate. If you are upfront, then she can decide if she still wants to pursue a relationship with you.

4. Look to your religion for inspiration. Many religions promote celibacy and let you know the reasons that you should continue to abstain from sex. Speak to a religious leader in your church about your decision.

5. Date someone with the same belief system. Sometimes celibate people find it easier to get involved with a person that has also chosen to abstain from sex.

Tips & Warnings

• There are many benefits for temporarily staying celibate. For instance, if a partner has cheated, it gives you both a chance to reevaluate your relationship without sex swaying your emotions.

• Some people find that prayer helps them deal with temptation while attempting to stay celibate.

Resources

• Read this Article in Spanish