How to Decide When a Child is Old Enough to Be Home Alone

Deciding when a child is old enough to be left at home alone is dependent on several factors, all dependent upon the child. Leaving the child alone for a short time at first is always best, so he can become accustomed to the responsibility it involves.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Check state laws. Very few states have laws on when children can be left home by themselves. However, some states do have guidelines that can be helpful in determining appropriate ages for being home alone.
2. Assess the child's maturity. Each individual child is different in terms of what they can handle. Some 12-year-olds may be able to better handle being home alone than many 14-year-olds. Maturity level should play a big part in determining if the child can be home alone.
3. Determine if the child is comfortable being home alone. If he isn't, regardless of age, don't leave him home alone.
4. Ensure the child knows emergency numbers, as well as how to reach an adult if an emergency occurs. This is necessary for any child staying at home. Post the numbers on the refrigerator at a level the child can see, or tape them by the phone.
5. Think about whether the child's behavior is appropriate. Staying at home is a big responsibility, and not only knowing what behavior is acceptable, but also following rules on acceptable behavior is necessary. The last thing a parent wants upon returning home is to be greeted by a party or the mess left behind from one.