How to Maintain a Successful Relationship

By Elvis De Leon

How to Maintain a Successful Relationship How to Maintain a Successful Relationship

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Having a rocky relationship? Read along. Already have a successful relationship? Read along. Let's face it, we all know there is always room for improvement.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • Commitment
  • Trust
  • Honesty
Step1
First thing's first: Without honesty, there's no trust. These are two very important ingredients. Always keep things clean, ladies and gentlemen, no matter what it takes.
Step2
To expand on honesty a bit more, say what you have to say, whether it's hurtful or not. For example, if you need to break up, do not be scared and hold back. Talk to your partner and give him/her fair, civilized reasons. It is a lot worse to keep a person attached to you when you know nothing is ever going to happen with you two. Do not waste anyone's time.
Step3
If you are together and things are looking great, there's nothing to fear, but this does not mean you should let your guard down. Always take good initiative; vary your habits. Take your partner out to places he/she only dreams of, surprise her with a nice present from time to time. No one said gifts are only meant for birthdays and holidays.
Step4
Treat your partner like there's no tomorrow. Feel free to pamper him/her and take some breakfast to bed. Your loved one will be absolutely amazed knowing you woke up with the relationship in mind.
Step5
Give each other some space. It is okay if someone likes to be around most of the time, but ask yourself, how does he/she feel about it? Do the homework and find out one's level of comfort, this way you can never interrupt when some alone-time is needed.
Step6
Many people hate when their partner asks "too many questions". Where are you going? When will you be back? Before yelling at each other, please consider he/she is only doing the math in order to know if you might be in trouble out there. Questions do not always equal jealousy.
Step7
You know what could happen if you forget an important event in your lives. Show your partner you really cherish those wonderful moments in the past. The way you let him/her know is entirely up to you, just make sure you two make things memorable.

Tips & Warnings

  • Keep things fresh. Many relationships end because of boredom and the fact that two people have completely different lifestyles.

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on 5/14/2008 good article! 4 stars!

CCrock

CCrock said

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on 1/3/2008 On of the greatest tips I've recieved is this...
Respect is to a man, what love is to a woman. Men-love your woman. Women-Respect your man.

Blackbear

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on 12/22/2007 Good article Elvis! I hope a lot of people read this!

grouch

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on 12/15/2007 So true honesty and trust go hand in hand. Don't just get hung up on the events to remember....A just because card or even call can mean the world if their day is slow or not going right.

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