How to Tell if a Partner is Ready for Marriage

Marriage is such a big step that it can give anyone cold feet, even a person with the warmest of hearts. Before you start planning your dream wedding, find out if your partner is ready for marriage so you can walk down the aisle with confidence, not confusion.

Instructions

1. Listen to the way your partner speaks. See if he uses the word "us" instead of "I" when he's talking to his friends. This may not seem important, but it shows that he's thinking as a couple instead of an individual.

2. Take a close look at her friends to determine whether they are family women or single women that live for a good party. Although it's not always fair to judge people by their friends, it can give you a good indication of the lifestyle she's looking for.

3. Talk to your partner about marriage. If you're already engaged, ask him if he has any fears or concerns that the two of you should discuss. Get everything out in the open as soon as possible so that you can work out any problems before the big day.

4. Ask her what she thinks about your future together to ensure that she's envisioning the same things you are. It's important to have common goals as a couple and you should learn as much about each other as possible before you tie the knot. If she's able to talk easily about the future, chances are she's ready for marriage.