How to Enjoy Oral Sex

One way to explore new sexual areas with your partner is to engage in oral sex. While oral sex is a fun, healthy way to stimulate your partner, not everyone is comfortable with the act. If you want to try oral sex, follow these steps to help you enjoy the experience.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Clean your genitals. Having clean genitals increases the enjoyment in both giving and receiving oral sex. You worry less about odors and tastes when you are clean and your partner should enjoy the experience more. You need to trim your pubic hair to make access easier.
2. Relax while you receive oral sex. You need to be relaxed in order to allow your body to respond to the stimulation you receive. If you can't relax, you might try a having a glass of wine. You might need to start with a sexual act that you are comfortable with before proceeding to oral sex.
3. Give feedback. You need to communicate with your partner about the things that you like and dislike. Not only does this increase the possibility of orgasm, it helps you become better at oral sex.
4. Start gently. You must be cautious when you have oral sex. If you start too rough you can damage genitals and ruin the experience. As you and your partner get more into the sex you can increase the sensations by increasing the intensity. You must remember to never bite your partner unless they specifically ask.
5. Be creative. You need to incorporate your hands into oral sex. Use your hand on the shaft of the penis to control the depth of the thrust and to help stimulate. Fingers can be used to stimulate the g-spot. You can also use a variety of foods like honey or chocolate and flavored condoms to add new tastes to the experience.
6. Practice safety. Sexually transmitted diseases can be passed into your system through oral sex. Males should wear a dry condom. Women should avoid receiving oral sex during menstruation.