How to Lose Virginity

If you've seen the movie "40 Year Old Virgin" then you know how devastating it can be for a person to hold onto their virginity past a certain point. Here are a few tips to help you lose your virginity so you don't end up as the subject of a movie sequel.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Meet a person you are attracted to. This sounds a bit obvious, but the truth is many people who become worried about their virginity start to close up and place an unrealistic burden on the experience. Go back to the basics and find someone who shares your interests.
2. Progress slowly through the natural stages. Make sure your partner is consensual with each new sexual experience. Kissing is often the first form of physical expression, followed by touching, heavy petting and ultimately sex. Don't put pressure on yourself to do it all in one night.
3. Make it special for you and your partner. Even if this is not your partner's first time, that's okay. Your first time together is what is truly special, and it's probably good that one of you has experience. Make the night about celebrating the two of you and your feelings toward each other. Go to a nice restaurant, plan a picnic, or create an intimate, romantic atmosphere with music and candles.
4. Let nature be your guide. Losing your virginity is not some race you have to win. It's a personal decision that belongs to you. If you have any misgivings, it's better to wait.

Tips & Warnings

• Always practice safe sex. That means using a condom as well as getting tested for STDs with your partner.