How to Get Aroused to Masturbate

While masturbation is increasingly being regarded as something normal and natural in the human psyche, and even if you feel completely comfortable with your own experimentation in self-pleasure, there still remains that need for that initial arousal. There are a variety of ways to accomplish that arousal, to get yourself in the mood to masturbate.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Think of someone you love, or someone you simply lust after. Visualize that person in your mind as clearly as you can, clothed or unclothed, whatever helps get you sexually aroused. Begin to masturbate, thinking of your hands as those of the person about whom you are fantasizing.

2. Touch yourself in a way that pleases you. You know yourself better than any partner could, so take advantage of that knowledge and begin to masturbate the way you want be sexually excited.

3. Use your hands and fingers in a variety of ways and in a variety of places around your body. To get aroused, it isn't always necessary to touch your sexual organs. Rather, it can be very pleasant and lust-provoking to touch all around your body in anticipation of actual sexual stimulation.

4. Imagine your partner--or partners, if that is what turns you on--there with you, touching you in whatever way you wish. Imagination--the power of mental creation--is an essential tool in the development of sexuality, whether with a partner or with yourself.

5. Watch favorite movies of whatever grade of pornography you need to excite you. Soft or hard, slow-paced or fast, do what makes you feel best.

6. Imagine yourself in the middle of your favorite fantasy. Whether taken from films you may have seen, or from your own mind, the sky's the limit where your imagination is concerned. The stronger your imagination, the more aroused you can become.

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