How to Tame a Womanizer
You know the type. He may work in your office or live down the street, and two days after he introduces you to his latest "girl" he's dumped her and moved on. But if you have fallen for a womanizer and desire to be more than another passing fancy in his life, you have to differentiate yourself from his usual marks. Here is how to tame a womanizer.
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Appeal to something other than his basic instincts, but look good while you're doing it. Talk to him and engage him in conversations about something he likes, for example, music, books or travel.
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Flirt with him subtly. Don't swoon, giggle or offer to film a porno with him on a first date like his usual girls. Beguile him, but maintain an aura of mystery.
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Avoid asking, "How high?" when he says, "Jump." Womanizers tend to appeal to younger women or women with low self-esteem, and they are used to being catered to. A woman with her own life will intrigue him and begin to tame his wild side.
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Treat his roving eye with nonchalance. This will be difficult at first if you really have feelings for him. However, all you can do is appeal to his better, more tame side. He will drop the horn dog act when he is ready. You are helping him now by acting differently than his normal bimbos.
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Cultivate patience. It may take awhile for a womanizer to admit he's in a relationship, but if you and he really do have something in common other than temporary, animal attraction, it will happen.
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Oh well good reading anyway!
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tannybaby
Aug 03, 2009
I am in love with a womanizer, we been together for 3 years now. at first i gave him a hard time i told him from the beginning that i didn't need a man to complete my life, i wasn't afraid to tell him to go, even though i still look out for him, i encourage him and all those stuff. He admit to me that at first he wanted to use me but this guy waited 7 months to have sex with me. i was the only woman who gave him such a hard time. he never dated one woman in his life and he maybe still doing it but at the end of the day he is making it clear that i am his woman. so i am saying for every womanizer there will be that one woman who will capture his heart without him knowing -
gia-rex
Jul 16, 2009
Good tips! You are dead-on, especially with in the first step!
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c360
Jan 17, 2009
There are different types of womanizers. I should know, I'm one of them. I'm not selfish, uncaring, or incapable of loving. I just have an uncontrollable desire to be with a woman sexually then move on some time afterwards. The women I'm with may get emotionally attached, but I do not because they're not giving me a reason to. If women had more of a womanizer counterpart personality I'd imagine I might go through the same issue. I don't intend to be a womanizer forever, I'm just waiting to meet the girl that gets my attention, takes care of me, and makes me feel special. It's when two parties manage to provide each other with these things that the womanizer becomes the loving man the women we usually sleep with want us to be. In my experience women enjoy the pampering, but seldom provide it. That's why our animal attraction fades and nothing is left for us, so we do move on.
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c360
Jan 17, 2009
There are different types of womanizers. I should know, I'm one of them. I'm not selfish, uncaring, or incapable of loving. I just have an uncontrollable desire to be with a woman sexually then move on some time afterwards. The women I'm with may get emotionally attached, but I do not because they're not giving me a reason to. If women had more of a womanizer counterpart personality I'd imagine I might go through the same issue. I don't intend to be a womanizer forever, I'm just waiting to meet the girl that gets my attention, takes care of me, and makes me feel special. It's when two parties manage to provide each other with these things that the womanizer becomes the loving man the women we usually sleep with want us to be. In my experience women enjoy the pampering, but seldom provide it. That's why our animal attraction fades and nothing is left for us, so we do move on.
