How to Raise Multiracial Children

The number of multiracial children has been steadily increasing for years. Children who have a foot in different cultures are at risk for increased identity problems. Raising multiracial children is a unique and rewarding challenge for parents. Follow these steps for suggestions.

Instructions

1. Recognize all races and cultures that are part of your child's life. Discuss this from an early age, and teach your children to be proud of who they are. Remain balanced in acknowledging your child's multiracial identity without overly focusing on it. As she grows up, there will be times when race is more of an issue. Let her bring it up when she needs to talk about it.

2. Raise children with the understanding that everyone is unique. Emphasize that what is most important in a person is what is inside.

3. Explore different aspects of your child's culture. Teach your child that all cultures and races are special. One way to do this is by introducing your child to different foods and music. Point out multiracial role models in sports, entertainment or other industries.

4. Work with your spouse to raise children together. Multiracial children need to see both parents actively involved in their upbringing. Involve extended family from both sides in a child's life. This aids children in developing a greater sense of their identity.

5. Live in a community accepting of multiracial families. A main concern needs to be a good school environment. Look for schools with diverse populations and supportive administrations.

6. Select "multiracial" or "other" whenever a selection of race is required on any form. Unfortunately, many schools still require families to choose a single race on federal forms with a preference for non-white choices. Don't give in. To choose one race over another is to deny part of your child's identity.

7. Challenge stereotypes of any race. Just one step away from making stereotypes according to race is discriminating according to race. Admit to your children that racism continues to exist. Instead of being angry, express sadness that something like that could still continue.