How to Buy a Present for a Bris
A bris, or the Jewish ritual circumcision of a baby, is a joyous occasion for the parents of the child and the entire family. Since gift registries are not as common for a bris as they are for a wedding, many guests are left to their own devices when it comes to buying presents. Fortunately, there are plenty of things a baby needs, a fact which makes buying a present for a bris relatively easy.
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Consider whether this is the family's first child or not. If you are not sure, find out. If it is not the first child, the family probably already has basic baby items such as baby bouncers, mobiles and bottle warmers.
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Ask the parents what they need. They will appreciate your consideration and are the best-informed about what the baby requires. Give some concrete suggestions if they give a general answer.
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Remember that it is appropriate to give money. According to Jewish tradition, money is given in increments of 18, because the number 18 according to Jewish mysticism represents life.
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Donate some money in the child's name to a Jewish school or a yeshivah, which is a tradition among many Jews. Usually, the parents make this donation, but you can certainly contribute. This should be given in addition to another gift.
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Buy clothes a size larger. Babies outgrow newborn sizes very quickly.
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Consult the family about any religious restrictions or personal issues they may have regarding certain items. Jews who belong to the Lubavitch movement, for instance, do not give a baby clothing or a toy depicting non-kosher animals.
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Placate older children by giving them gifts as well. The presents need not be more complicated than balloons or candy presented at the bris. The children will appreciate this, and it will reduce sibling rivalry.
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Tips & Warnings
Pool resources together with friends, and hire household help for the mother for the days preceding and following the bris, since she is tired from the labor, has many guests and needs the help.
