Love is precious, pure, and affectionate. Love isn't suppose to hurt it's suppose to heal and mend. For love is gentle.
Step2
It's all in the way you speak.
The way you speak is the way you appear. So if you speak aggressively, or sarcastic then people will perceive you that way. But as I said in the beginning gentle is love. One must speak in a gentle tone with meaning but considerately. For a lover cares about who they are talking to, and will try their best not to hurt the person's feelings.
Step3
Caress.
When you touch or compliment someone it should caress them on the inside. You want to make people feel comfortable around you not afraid of you. Being rough isn't the mind of a lover for he, or she only know how to love.
Step4
Compromise
One should learn to compromise. Being a lover means sharing it only fair that you do. Because love is about sharing, and growing. Treat others how you want to be treated.
Tips & Warnings
Problems to watch out for is that everybody want respect your loving vibe. People will question you and make fun of you. But remember to always walk away for love is peace. Remember to always go where you are appreciate and not tolerated.
EMBRACE LOVE
Enthusiast 
Comments
Solarpowered said
on 3/17/2008 Excellent advicee. One must be their own greatest lover before such ove can be shared.