How to Give a Hand Job to a Man

When you give a hand job to a man, it doesn't have to mean second rate satisfaction. Giving a hand job can be very intimate and satisfying if done properly and with enthusiasm. Keep your man happy even without sex by learning how to give a great hand job.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Set the mood just like you would for sex. Come on to him like you want to please him, not like you are just doing it to shut him up. Men are very visual and like to see that you are interested and enjoying the act of pleasing him. This makes the experience much more pleasurable to him.

2. Caress his body in other places before going to his penis. Run your fingers along his body, kiss his neck and chest and touch everywhere but his penis. This builds the excitement and sets him up for a nice shock when you do touch his penis.

3. Touch his penis lightly at first, like you did it on accident. Rub his inner thighs and slowly work your way to touching just his penis. Touch it with the tips of your fingers, gliding them up and down the shaft lightly. Slowly work in more agressive moves by grabbing the shaft and stroking it for a moment, then let go and go back to the light touches.

4. Pour a water-based lubricant on your hands and then grab his penis. When you give a hand job to a man without any kind of lubricant, the friction can be painful, even later when you are finished. Keep the lubricant close by because you may need to reapply.

5. Look at your man frequently and let him know you are enjoying pleasing him and giving him attention. Grab his penis and stroke it with one hand, then use both hands. Alternate movements and hands throughout the hand job. Variety makes it more exciting.

6. Talk to your man to see what kinds of moves he likes. When he is close to climaxing, he may want you to use the same movement until he is done. Let him know you enjoy pleasing him and talk to him about what you are doing.

7. Stroke his penis in a way that he enjoys most when he is about to climax. Pay attention to the sensitive area at the head of the penis. Use one hand to stroke his penis and the other to gently massage his testicles. The combination of these two motions should send him over the edge. Continue the same movements until he asks you to stop. Stopping too soon can ruin the feeling for him.

[look4writing]

on 9/24/2009 It is refreshing to hear that from a lady, that sounds like good advice for both partners. 5s and a recomend L4W

[DTurbo]

on 7/4/2009 lol..clearly written by a woman. here's a man's advice: there really is no difference between 'movements' just note if you do it fast it will end early which is probably what he wants, oh and skip steps 1-3 and go straight to 4

[sexiione]

on 5/20/2009 good advice for my bff