How to Live Alone

It can be tough to adjust to going solo. If you're living alone or are about to move out on your own, there are a few things to keep in mind to ease the transition and remain connected to the world around you. To live alone doesn't automatically mean you're lonely. In fact, you can learn to enjoy solitude just as much as spending time with other people.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Connect to the people around you. Sometimes you just have to get yourself out there and say "hi." If you live alone in an apartment complex or condo, go to the sponsored events and talk to at least three new people before you go home.
2. Join a local group or organization in your area. Volunteer at a local shelter, nursing home, or other charitable organization. You can connect to your community and make new friends.
3. Get a pet. Rescue a cat or dog from a shelter. Having a furry friend to take care of will keep you on track. You can also meet new people walking your dog or taking your ferret to the pet store (which can be a lot of fun, by the way).
4. Surf the web. The computer is a great means to chase the blues away and reach out to people you'll never even meet. Join newsgroups, chat rooms, and web forums to stay connected.
5. Call friends and family back home when you feel down. Sometimes all you need is a pep talk from your friends or just to hear a family member's voice to remind you that you're not alone.
6. Be safe. Living in a safe area and feeling secure in your new place will grant you peace of mind. A good security system doesn't hurt, either.
7. Enjoy the perks of living alone. Decorate however you want to, leave dirty dishes in the sink, walk around in your underwear, make rude noises, or have a solo jam fest to your favorite music. You'll never have to share the remote or the bathroom, and you're free to do what you like. What could be better?