By
eHow Relationships & Family Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Step1
Challenge the status quo. You must be self-defined to awaken your inner sex god. Adhere to your own standards of manhood instead of the typical societal ideals. Having lots of sex with random women won't necessarily make you a good lover. It certainly does not make you manlier.
Step2
Release insecurity. There is a natural air of confidence that develops when you love who you are. That confidence is inherently attractive. Take the time to get comfortable in your own skin if you are not already. Love your body, take good care of yourself, and nurture your soul.
Step3
Take a survey. Talk to women with whom you have platonic relationships. Find out what their ideal sex partners are like. Actively listen and take in the information. You don't have to completely change who you are, but knowing what women truly want will help you awaken your inner sex god.
Step4
Tune into your partner. There is no better resource for information. Ask your woman to express likes and dislikes. Encourage the full expression of her sexuality as well as your own.
Step5
Be sexually giving. Make sure your sexual experiences are as much about giving pleasure as they are about receiving. No woman wants to feel like a receptacle.
Step6
Explore. Awaken your inner sex god by figuring out what works for you. Be open-minded. Your sexual evolution depends on your openness to new experiences, ideas and sexual practices.