How to Give a Bride's Speech

Giving a bride's speech remains an option in modern marriages. It depends on the individual. Everyone knows the bride's side of the family has invested much time and effort over the months to prepare for this one special day. Many things have changed since the Victorian days when only men spoke. Go for it.

Instructions

1. Determine the placing of your speech. The bride has several options: the first person to speak and before or after her husband or best man.

2. Thank your parents for the lovely wedding and tell them how important they've been over the years along with siblings. Tell a short story from your past that demonstrates love or levity.

3. Look at your new in-laws to express your feelings about joining their family. Lightly say something nice or funny, such as "I'll take good care of (name)."

4. Offer sincere appreciation to those attending your special day, especially the bridesmaids and best man. Mention particular people, relatives or friends by name with an antidote if suitable.

5. Express your love toward your husband. Give a short story such as how you met or something humorous about the wedding preparations, buying the dress or something gone awry.

6. Propose a toast as an option.

7. Introduce the next speaker if applicable.

Tips & Warnings

• Organize and practice your speech to feel comfortable with delivery.

• Look at whomever you thank.

• Stay calm while speaking loud enough for all to hear.

• Avoid mentioning anything that would embarrass someone.