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Step 1
Give the kids some responsibility. Ask your children to complete a few age and skill appropriate chores around the house. Show them how to do the tasks correctly, then step back and let them complete the jobs and gain a sense of independence.
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Step 2
Help your kids figure out a problem instead of stepping in and solving it for them. Ask things like, "How would you handle this situation?" Give them guidance and the tools to solve problems themselves.
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Step 3
Let your kids fail once in a while. Yes, this is incredibly difficult. But kids need to know what failure feels like and how to deal with it.
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Step 4
Build routines. Make every night the same at bedtime and soon your kids will find their independence and complete tasks without you having to tell them.
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Step 5
Be there for support when your kids need it and let them know you believe in them. You can be a support for your kids through the tough times and empower them by saying how much confidence you have in their judgment and abilities.











