How to Deal with an Arguing Toddler

Arguing children want to have things the way they want it, and right at that minute. However, to discipline your child effectively you have to teach them right from wrong. Here are a few tips on how to deal with an arguing toddler.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Patience

1. Firstly, distinguish what your child is doing wrong. Tell your child that whatever they are doing wrong you will not allow. Give your child one chance before punishing them. For example, if your child hits his/her sibling, explain to your child that that 'wasn't nice' and to not do it again.

2. If your child continues to do whatever it is that you do not want her/him to do, it is time for a punishment. Having your child stand in the corner or write lines is a good punishment. Writing line such as 'I will not hit my sister again' will help them to behave. If they are too young to know how to write, then a good 10 minutes in the corner, or a small 'hit' on the bottom that will get their attention can be effective.

3. If your toddler argues with you, tell them that they will get a punishment if they do not stop. Do not yell at the toddler, just tell them in a stern voice. Don't let your child get away with too much or you will have a spoiled brat on your hands.

4. Children should never argue. Tell your toddlers that children need to respect and listen to their parents. Reward your children not with candy or presents but with praise. Choose a punishment that works for your family and that can be used if your toddler argues. For example, if your family doesn't believe in spanking, then the child can write lines or stand in the corner. Happy Parenting!

Tips & Warnings

• Don't ever yell at your child, just talk to them in a stern voice.
• Don't your child have too many chances. If your child thinks that he/she can keep on getting chances they will never learn to listen.
• Take away a child's privilege if he/she argues or does not listen. This is also a good punishment.

[LEEDRAKE]

on 4/24/2008 Excellent article. Right on target. I deal w/ my 3 year old in much the same way. I learned from this article.

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